All women want love. The concept of real love is commonly described as a deep sense of caring and responsibility. Through literature, movies, theater, and other social mediums, this type of love has developed and renewed the spirit for every generation. The practical application of attraction and love is more complex, however. What many refer as real love is generally a combination of both true feelings of caring and the physical component of sexual desire. The ManBible recognizes two types of love: the concept of love called real love, and the love of sexual relations and eventual sex called love. (Commonly known as love making). This is reflected in The ManBible Ninth Truth: (There are) Two Types of Love (MBT9 – TTL). Mnay men begin the courting process under the influence of the desire for lovemaking, motivating them to make a move for the earthly delights of booty. Although feelings sometime motivate as well, they usually are premature gestures. A man who loves a woman before physical contact usually wants to make love to her before he moves some more. As a relationship develops, real love sometimes can take over and overtake the motivation for continuing the courting process with a woman of interest.

Love is a balance. On one extreme is pure feelings and on the other pure carnal desire. Most relationships fall somewhere in the middle, relying heavily for men on making love first and asking questions later. The Manbible recognizes the balance between these two types of love as The Love Continuum (LC). Where on the LC a man finds himself is less important than knowing where on the LC he began and continues to reside. Without illusion of pretense, a man should pair his actions toward a woman in the context of the LC. Making love to a woman does not mean professing real love, and feeling real love without making love is a tragic waste of time. Most times making love to a woman of interest is all the expression of love necessary.

               The Love Continuum

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Real Love                                                          Love                                 Making Love

Some men use real love to more quickly gain favor with women of interest. Some men only make love and defer real love for marriage prospects. Most men combine the two into a confusing mess of sex and dating.

MBNote: Real love is effective in enhancing sexual relations and eventual sex. Heightening the mental component of the human condition with thoughts of caring and feelings will increase the pleasure and presence of a woman of interest.   Enhancing sexual relations and eventual sex can, however, be accomplished through other means.

MBWarning: Love is a battlefield. The ManBible cautions men when concerning real love as it usually takes extraordinary efforts and includes diminished autonomy, pain and anguish. The pull of real love is great, however, and many men find themselves making real love before they know what is happening.

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