Friends and sex rarely mix well. The motivation for friendship and the attraction to women of interest are different in rational and perspective. Friendship is the coming together of people to socialize, support and accompany one-another though all of life’s challenges and non-sexual accomplishments. The desire for sexual relations and eventual sex (SRES) with a WOI contemplates a best-case scenario of 30-45 minutes of a blissful physical act, repeated. As the primary focus of men is generally SRES, friendship naturally conflicts with the search for booty. One seeks non-physical connections and the other seeks the best physical act the world has to offer. The ManBible recognizes this as The Friendship Approach (TFA). A man who befriends a woman for SRES is not a friend, and a woman who is a friend by default after striking out or not making a move is not a friend either. Of course, friendship is possible after the intent for SRES is disclosed. However, seeking SRES in the first instance before the goal of friendship is contemplated masks the true nature of the approach. Reason dictates a woman objectified for attraction and sex is not a friend sought but a hoped for bang. Friends don’t bang friends unless a booty call arrangement is made.
Attraction is a natural reaction. People are capable of impressive feats, including new social interactions, and are theoretically able to build relationships of friendship notwithstanding the sexual dimension of attraction. The difficultly stems from the potential attraction-friendship conflict of interest issue. A man can say, “She is just a friend,” but commonly she is a friend with a hope for relations beyond just friendship. These usually include the hope of romance, future sexual relations and sex. Under these conditions, the friendship could be viewed as a misrepresentation of the truth of the matter. Notwithstanding, there are many friendships that bear fruit beyond attraction. The ManBible recognizes this issue as The Fourth ManBible Truth: Men and Women Cannot be Friends (MBT4 – MWNF). This truth is rarely spoken to avoid social awkwardness and maintain relationships that provide continual SRES. There will always be friendships between men and women. Many men even believe the friendship approach is a great idea to gain favor with women of interest. However, becoming friends with a WOI is generally a bad idea in the end. True friendship is sometimes difficult when a man’s true intent is to get down his friend’s pants.
Friendship is not better than nothing at all. The belief that friendship will afford the time and opportunity necessary to gain favor with a woman of interest is uncertain. As a method to advance dating and relationship aspirations, the friendship approach is generally unsuccessful and a waste of valuable time. A risk in taking TFA is overshooting the mark and landing in what The ManBible recognizes as The Friend Zone (TFZ). The TFZ is a place where many dreams of booty end. Another risk is missing opportunities of first impression. (The opportunity to make a good first impression). When a man meets WOI, he should posture for a courting action. Laying a foundation for a lasting friendship is an extremely slow way to getting a WOI naked in bed. Known as The Fake Friendship (TFF), a man holds in an indefinite standby waiting for an opportunity for initial sexual relations. Of course, knowing whether a woman is really interested in more than a friendship is always difficult to determine.
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